Day 69: Monday
Good morning Zak,
So I don’t know if you would count blogging as social media, but aside from this blog I pretty much have no presence online. I don’t do social media. This is a part of the hipster wannabe in me. If everyone’s online, I’m not. If everyone likes milk chocolate, I prefer dark chocolate. Everyone gets their Masters at home, I travel to Italy, etc.
The only downside to abstaining from social media is that it means I miss out on a lot of information. In Milan there are sometimes weird hipster concerts with zero publicity, but you can hear about them if you’re in the right social media circle.
In your last entry:
“How can [we] use these tools for good — to help others — and not be addicted and lose [ourselves]?”
But there definitely are upsides to being out of the loop. For one thing, not having direct access to information means that I have to rely on personal human contact to find out about stuff. Sometimes people realize this and make a point of reaching out to me personally. Maybe that means I’m a burden on society. I don’t know. Frankly I don’t care. Human contact is worth the extra effort.
I know connection is supposedly the whole point of social media. But maybe there’s a difference between mere connection and actual contact. Like, I don’t think everything humans do has to be useful. Human contact isn’t necessarily about having access to information or gaining a certain number of likes. It can also be an end itself.
Luigi Dallapiccola used to wear a full suit and tie whenever he sat down to compose music. He was completely alone; there was no one around to “like” his suit, but he did it anyway. It was a ritual he needed to do for himself as an artist, not for any practical reason.
As a brief aside, anyone acquainted with the daunting eloquence of Dallapiccola’s music can totally picture him doing something like that. I’d be more surprised to find out he didn’t wear a suit.
Anyway, I know people do a lot of really cool stuff online too. I’m not informed enough about social media to really have an opinion on it. But, Zak, I do have opinions about blogging. I think we should use these tools to cherish the uselessness of being human. Life isn’t about getting ahead. It’s about living.
“I have come that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”